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Beth Campbell Duke's avatar

Zero tolerance, indeed. Thank you for your work in helping them see just how frustrated and terrified we are in dealing with systems that have 'zero tolerance' while often failing to see us and our needs. It is a hot mess during caregiving.

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Victoria's avatar

THIS: 'I think about family caregivers living in this hot mess of uncaring systems, aggressive family members and intolerable conditions. We’re at our breaking points but can’t break. If we break, so does our caree.

So we live the hot mess day in and day out.'

So true, Denise! This is what I read on the forums in the UK, EVERYDAY' I'm blessed that right now, our days are easier. Boring and routine are heavenly.

When we were caring for Dad, we were well beyond breaking point - hypervigilance, eggshell-tension, months were one long day lit by the blue lights of ambulances and red lights of heart machines.

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