I love your insight about the misconception that self-care must happen outside our caregiving relationship. For many, staying fully present is self-care. Peace of mind is so important to use during our caregiving experience; often, that peace of mind comes from being in the caregiving relationship. I really believe we need to redefine respite so that we have a place in our homes that gives to us. We can stay and get relief from visiting a beautiful spot in our home or a garden. Thanks, always, Donna for a great conversation on a Sunday morning.
I love your idea of using librarians for this purpose, Denise! It's brilliant. I've been turning over similar questions to yours this morning. Here are my thoughts about the dangers of long-term one-way caregiving https://www.donnathomson.com/2021/05/shifting-from-you-to-us-in-caregiving.html.
I love your insight about the misconception that self-care must happen outside our caregiving relationship. For many, staying fully present is self-care. Peace of mind is so important to use during our caregiving experience; often, that peace of mind comes from being in the caregiving relationship. I really believe we need to redefine respite so that we have a place in our homes that gives to us. We can stay and get relief from visiting a beautiful spot in our home or a garden. Thanks, always, Donna for a great conversation on a Sunday morning.
Yes! Respite at home, I really love that idea. We have to find a path to that. Happy Sunday, Denise!